Found her on the 1920 Penn Yan, Yates, New York census (dist 182 img 10) as Lillian Danes
age 5 months.
Found her on the 1930 Torrey, Yates, New York census (dist 19 img 6) as Lillian Danes
Penn Yan, Apr. 1 - Miss Lillian Dains, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Milford Daines, of Dresden, and William H. Gelder, son of Mrs. Madeline Gelder, of Dresden, were married Thursday, March 24th, Rev. E. W. Collins, a former pastor of Dresden M. E. Church, now located at New Hope, performing the ceremony. Mrs. E. W. Collings and Miss Evelyn Collings were witnesses. Mr. and Mrs. Gelder are making their home at the Gelder cottage near Dresden, on Seneca lake. - Geneva Daily Times April 1, 1938